We have plenty to eat each day. Most of it grows on our farm. All the bread that we ate came from the wheat. Girls don't have a bar mitzvah, but they do sometimes learn a trade when they finish school after sixth grade. Many girls become seamstresses because knowing how to sew for a family is important. most girls marry by the time they are 18 or 20 with the help of a matchmaker. So is that where you saw your life going? Right.