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How Perfectionism and Shame Lead to Stress and Burnout

You Are Not A Frog

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Is It All About Fear of Disconnection?

Shame is our amygdala response going, yeah, you've done something here that's not going to be acceptable to the group. And so shame is all about fear of disconnection. So we want to be connected to other people and evolutionarily if we broke the rules of the social group we would have been left behind to die in the desert or wherever we were. We go miles towards things that make us belong that make us feel that people like us that they accept us as we're not different.

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