Are You a Female ISTJ?

I think a lot of people have expectations for you as a woman to show up that way. As an ISTJ, that doesn't come to you naturally because that's not how your mind is wired. There are templates that are set in our world often that expect things from you because of your gender. And this happens for like, I'm a feeler man, this happens for me also on the feeler side. You're using that 10 year old process in service of the co-pilot, not vice versa.