If you’re a long-time listener, you’ve probably heard me talk about my study abroad classes before. I take students all over the world to learn about sex and culture, and one of the many topics we explore is sexual fantasies, including how they are similar or different across cultures.
For example, in my Amsterdam course, we hear from Marielle de Goede, who along with her colleagues at Company New Heroes conducted the largest ever study of sexual fantasies in the Netherlands and Belgium as part of a creative project titled Yes, Please! They interviewed over 400 people about their fantasies and subsequently published a Dutch-language book about their findings under the same name. This project also resulted in various theatre performances and a traveling erotic exhibition. The goal of the project was to celebrate the erotic imagination and to break the taboos surrounding our fantasies and sexuality by bringing together art, storytelling, and science.
In today’s episode, we’re going to discuss Marielle’s project in more depth. Some of the topics we address include:
- How similar or different are sexual fantasy themes around the world?
- Why do Europeans seem to fantasize about cuckolding less than Americans?
- How might our political beliefs affect our fantasies?
- How do people feel about their sexual fantasies?
- What do we know about the origins of our fantasies?
- What’s the best way to share a fantasy with a partner?
If you’re interested in learning more and joining me on a study abroad trip this year, this blog has the registration information for all of our locations this year — Amsterdam, Prague, Reykjavik, and Barcelona.
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