You're Defying the Systemic Policeman

In defiance of the usual decision theory framework it says that when you go when you leave the conversation to go make decisions it will be the beliefs you take with you. When we're trying to influence somebody's future actions we are trying to influence the beliefs they will have after the conversation but anyway your other point my other point is just I just wanted to note that you are in this conversation playing the role of systemic policeman where you're like look we have a system we have a usual framing for dealing with this problem and you're trying to do the do it yourself approach. This recapitulates the the framing of the books that's all i mean  i think that whenever you're defying