If you feel overly angry or hurt, you should wait a little bit until you're clearly thinking and have kind of reflected on the things that you want to say. The most important thing when youare resolving conflict with a friend is to figure out together you're going to do it differently going forward so you don't end up in the same situation again. If you 're some one who had your feelings hurt, i would suggest that you say how you feel, tell them how you would like to be treated differently, or how you think you can resolve it. Izzie, you're my friend, and i love learning on the island. Although i have to admit, i would like