Is Your Dad a Calvinist?

I was always thinking about what my dad was saying and kind of reading. I remember thinking that what he was saying about predestination at first was like, oh, this doesn't seem right. How can I be predestined before the foundation of the world to believe? Does that mean I'm not free? He really just pointed out in scripture, you know, you did not choose me. I chose you, right? All this, all these things everywhere. That's right there in the text. So yeah, definitely put a pin in that that'll be back. Do you want to come back to this? That I think this theme of saying to find grace is going to