You Don't Need to Be Like Us, but We Need Some Ground Rules

"I would think what you'd want to get to a point where we need some ground rules here," she says. "There's got to be a meeting of the minds that says, listen, you don't need to be like us." If he wants any privilege of being in this family, there must be something 'you're giving back' She adds: "This kid is now living a life that's destructive and potentially lethal"