What's the Best Way to Date?

i really believe that the christians should have a robust philosophical game when it comes to defending the pro life world view. There are pro choice philosophers out there who really know their stuff. We would debate catholicism versus protestantism. Young earth versus old earth creationism. And what is the best way to date? People typical like wat people in the early twenties like to tak about a bunch, you know, now that we're married to have kids.