When he does his home work by ten p m, how do you feel emotionally? Well, of course i feel, i feel glad. Are there any other feelings there? I i honestly, i don't know. But what i'm almost hearing from you is that even though he did what he was supposed to do, he's not like doing it for the right reasons. He's just complying with your orders to get you off his back so that he canle go back to the addiction. How can a mom truly be happy in that situation? What do you think is that?