What Is the Best Way to Get Your Perspective on How Things Are Going?

i spent a lot of time trying to find the right way to phrase that, and i stil completely scoot it up. There's an element of having to get out of sort of our own heads and think about what this person really needs. So often, for those sthat struggle with ruinous empathy, were we're afraid that its in the land is like, obnoxious aggression. But in fact, what that person needs from us is that clarity. And is that best, like the kindest thing we can do, its to be clear.