You Can't Control Your Way Into Sophistication

A person can only behave with someone who is at the highest level. A highly enlightened person could go and meet a crack addect in a solitary confinement in a prison for five hours, feeling completely blissful inside oneself. That's that sophisticated and elegant state. How do we get there? You cannot control your way into that consciousness state. Nobody ever became great by scanning, scamming them their way into it. Control freaks are not sophisticated and elegant people. They're simply control freaks. And why are they failures? Because they fail to control.