We're in a Very Competitive Society and We Have Very Few Unconditional Ways of Being

It's very rare to have unconditional acceptance and love for being just who we are. Our direct messengers caretakers who ever brought us up were imprinted by our larger society which is so full of fear, aggression and competition. We go around chronically evaluating like how am I doing now maybe you've noticed that? It's others mirroring that tells us about ourselves.