The Baby Step of Communicating a Fetish

How do you balance one person's needs slash kinks with the other person's right to refuse That's tricky Yeah, I I relationship we match really well when it comes to our Compatibility. Whenever there's like an intimidation factor of sharing a kink or embarrassment or shame always ask yourself What's the baby step version of this? It could be very intimidating to go to your partner and say Hey, like i'm really into feet. Like that's a huge jump. So to ask yourself if you have a fetish Okay, let me bring it back to like what would the baby step be of communicating this fetish or what are you saying?