How to Be Happily Married

Each of you individually is 100% responsible for the relationship as a whole. And it only takes one person to decide, you know what? I'm going to be generous to my partner. Do that on a consistent basis and your partner will start acting that way too. You are writing, you are rowing both sides of the boat for the relationship right now. That's entirely appropriate at times. They're going to, you're showing them how it's done.