The Intensity of Grief

I see a lot of addiction to intensity these days. I think people are withholding so many opinions and stories about one another. Can we just tell each other our stories that we make up in our heads about each other? Because it's about you. It's good to know what stories people make up about us, because there's almost always a gem in every story that somebody has about me. And from presents, i always ask the question, not is it true what you're saying about me, but how is it true? How is it true?"