Can We Do This Relationship Without Fighting?

I think you go should take a break. Focus on work. Focus on yourselves, and then maybe rekindle your relationship down the line when things settle down. If you guys can't figure out a way to have a relationship without fighting, i say you nix it. I'm confident that what needs to happen is you need to let her go and see if she comes back. Because this past year has been extremely hard, transformative, confusing, all of the above. And so many people have lost contact with people that they once were close to.