26. Angry Thoughts, Second Thoughts | John Ortberg
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The Four Types of Anger Mismanagement
Neo: Anger mismanagement style is what Neo calls the somatizer, the Greek word for body, psychosomatic. And that's the person who maybe when they were young, were taught one way or another, it's not okay for you to be angry, but it is okay for youto be sick. In fact, you actually get what Freud calls secondary gain for being sick. You get sympathy. So this is the person that when they get mad, they get sick. They may not even be aware of being mad. And then the fourth category, he'll say is the self-punisher. And this is where you get angry, but maybe because it's safest
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