#46 - Adam Lane Smith - Psychology of Attachment, Sex Drive and Social Mobility
Origin Story with David McIntosh Jr
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Attachment Stales
attachment is the way you give and receive love from other people. The different attachment styles spring from this. 50 % of americans have healthy attachment, but 50% have unhealthy attachment. Anxious style: Worrying that if you ask for something, they will think you're a burden and will abandon you. Avoidant: Keep everyone out at arm's length and never let anyone in. They are always worrying, always trying to be perfect, but knowing they can never be perfect. It becomes pushing buttons from behind your cardboard cut up,. Pushing buttons to make other people not hurt you by giving them what they want.
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