If you don't ever tell anyone that what they're doing is hurtful to you, it's not that you're just going t find assels who'll like, walk all over you. What you're going to do is create people who don't respect your boundary because thy dn't know it's a real boundary. As you call attention to it, some people can't engage in that level of conversation. And then, like, if you are friends with those people who can't modify their behavior, who don't take you seriously, than that's the relationshipyou're signing up for. Some people can handle it, and some people can't. We live in a society