Susan cane's remarkable new book is titled bitter sweet, how longing and sorrow make us. The idea at the heart of the bitter sweet is how people can transform pain into creativity, transcendence and love. i amm eternally grateful now that my wife likes to do it,. Weigh more than i do or can. I feel like we have to get together in person after absolutely whos evety things i want to tell youand cheer with you.