We must believe that we are gifted for something and that this thing at whatever cost must be attained. That's how you get bold, that's how you take that first rule. Put all of your energy there. Don't spend your time thinking about what might go wrong. Instead, think about why it must happen. Why do you care enough to put yourself through this? Why are you being bold? What is it that matters to you? Once you have that thing, that is the one gift. If I could just give, I would give but I can't. It must be earned. You have to earn what you want. So put yourself in that position where momentum is the default