For me, the paradoxical move is to just slow down. Because typically i have a reaction. And it's like extreme. So i need tol go through my energetic wave. Once i'm like, wait, i know who i am. I'm not what this person is saying. There's nothing i can do about that. But you sure as hell will hear from the people who want to spend the time to tell you that they don't like when you're me ya'