The Cost of Being Unresolved on Love

We don't even love ourselves with our thoughts or our prayers. We need prayers, but what's wrong with us where we don't love ourselves enough to say that, i'm worth praying for right now? There's epsycho, somebody of you know her. And brernet brown talks about what happens, the cost of what you might say is unresolved on love. What is the cost of being on a person who's living in this world as someone who doesn't actually let themselves be loved and doesn't actually love themselves?"