Couple Therapy - Is Your Marriage the Provider of Self-Actualization?

Find ways to enjoy working on your relationship as much as you can. Not every single day Brad is going to be a joy but that we can find the joy in the journey and we can work with our partners to do more of that right? It could be that you expect a lot of your marriage like let's i really want us to be best friends i want us to raise the kids together and want us to support one another's professional lives oh wow that's a lot of things that we want from our relationship how are we going to feed this relationship so that it can offer us those kinds of things, he says.