How to Get Other People's Attention

In order to get other people's attention in order to elicit their care you sometimes have to jump through some hoops. You try to identify your ways with someone else. This is desire of. And here the word does not care but identification. So we talk a lot about kids right. They don't like car keys because that shit jingles and makes noises, they like them because every time you grab them it means you and your desire are going somewhere away from them.