How Much Stretch Is Too Much?

Welcome to the Leading Edge in Emotionally Focused Therapy, hosted by Drs. James Hawkins, Ph.D., LPC, and Ryan Rana, Ph.D., LMFT, LPC—Renowned ICEEFT Therapists, Supervisors, and Trainers. We're thrilled to have you with us. We believe this podcast, a valuable resource, will empower you to push the boundaries in your work, helping individuals and couples connect more deeply with themselves and each other.

Join Dr. James Hawkins and Dr. Ryan Rana as they dive deep into the nuanced world of Stage 2 in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). In this illuminating episode, they unpack the critical transition from Stage 1 to Stage 2, providing therapists with a comprehensive guide to understanding when and how to help couples progress in their therapeutic journey. Using their innovative SAFE acronym, they provide practical insights into assessing client readiness, deepening vulnerability, and creating transformative therapeutic experiences. Episode Outline:

1. Introduction

• SV Focus Lab invitation

• Podcast mission and purpose

• Importance of continuous learning in EFT

2. Stage 2 Overview

• Common misconceptions about Stage 2

• Challenges therapists face in transitioning

• The need for nuanced understanding

3. SAFE Acronym Breakdown

4. S - See the Cycle

• Cognitive and experiential awareness

• Understanding interpersonal impact

2. A - Access Vulnerability

• Depth of emotional exploration

• Balancing client capacity

100. F - Flexible Responses

• Adapting to partner's protective moves

• Demonstrating relational safety

500. E - Experiential Corrections

• Importance of repeated corrective experiences

• Assessing readiness for Stage 2

4. Practical Applications

• Assessment techniques

• Therapeutic strategies

• Warning signs and opportunities

5. Conclusion

• Invitation for further learning

• Call to action for therapists

Key Takeaways:

• Understanding Stage 2 is about nuanced, patient therapeutic work

• Clients must demonstrate readiness through multiple experiences

• Therapists must balance pushing boundaries while respecting client capacity

To support our mission and help us continue producing impactful content, your financial contributions via Venmo (@leftpodcast) are greatly appreciated. They play a significant role in keeping this valuable resource available and are a testament to your commitment to our cause.

We aim to equip therapists with practical tools and encouragement for addressing relational distress. We're also excited to be part of the team behind Success in Vulnerability (SV)—your premier online education platform. SV offers innovative instruction to enhance your therapeutic effectiveness through exclusive modules and in-depth clinical examples.

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If you like the concepts discussed on this podcast you can explore our online training program, Success in Vulnerability (SV).

Thank you for being part of our community. Let's push the leading edge together!