How to Deal With Resentment in a Relationship

I think just remembering that you are on the same team. And if there's going to be an enemy, it's always going to be like your partner's boss, not your partner. I have so been there with the like channeling resentment at work into like well why don't you just tell your manager this? It works for me one thing that's worked and admittedly the kids aren't part of the equation but we try to be very clear about like this week is going to be really intense for meso if you can figure out how to take some things off of my plate.