The Different Degrees of Relationship Between Your Ex-Husband and Someone Other

"The root of it is selfishness, and the kids were not a fan," she says. "One was really scared when this initially happened to even go with their dad because of the changes in appearance and the strange people that he was taking the kids around." The children have different relationships with him between the three. One has none at all. It's not interested, the oldest. He wants to remain present to remind his father who he Really Is.