Understanding Sexual Desire and Intimacy

In this episode of Chatting With Candice, Candice Horbacz and Ian Kerner tackle the shocking orgasm gap where 98% of men climax compared to only 60% of women, exploring why 76% of women fake orgasms and how this destroys sexual communication. They discuss the cultural double standards that banned "She Comes First" from TV while allowing Viagra commercials, dive into the complete clitoral anatomy containing as much tissue as a penis and explain why women's brains shut off stress centers during arousal while men's activate differently. Topics include clitoral-vaginal distance affecting intercourse satisfaction, responsive vs spontaneous desire frameworks, the dangerous roommate phase cycles, and why sexual dysfunction causes one-third of marriage failures.