Introduction

Don't fire off a whole bunch of first date questions as if it was an interview. Do you vibe? Is there some chemistry? Are there enough points of interest? Do you have fun with this person? Do you feel safe? And to a certain gree, do you feel seen and heard? Right? If someone's dominating the whole conversation without giving you room, then you're not really feeling seen or heard. The goal isn't to identify whether they're good lifetime partnership material on the first date. It's just two people getting together to see if they like each other enough to see each other again.