The chapter explores the intersection of beliefs and personal goals, emphasizing the importance of developing meaningful opinions based on genuine experiences. It delves into the concept of adopting beliefs that might be inaccurate but beneficial in achieving desired outcomes, contrasting them with beliefs aligned with reality. Through an analogy of adjusting beliefs akin to perfecting bowling technique, the chapter underscores the significance of intentionally shaping beliefs to overcome obstacles and progress in life.
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Is nothing objectively true? What kinds of things are we trying to communicate with the stories we tell? Why do we feel the need to take a side on every issue? Which sorts of issues should be tied to our identities? How can we set the definitions for terms in a conversation, if possible? Should people just believe whatever works for them? Is it better to try to compensate for our biases or to reduce them? Should we strive to have lower confidence in ourselves and our abilities? How should we think about assigning blame when something goes wrong? When should we say yes or no to new opportunities? To what degree should we try to optimize our lives?
Derek Sivers is an author of philosophy and entrepreneurship known for his surprising, quotable insights and pithy, succinct writing style. Formerly a musician, programmer, TED speaker, and circus clown, he sold his first company for $22 million and gave all the money to charity. Sivers’ books (How to Live, Hell Yeah or No, Your Music and People, and Anything You Want) and newest projects are at his website: sive.rs
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