You're Doing the Best You Can in the Situation

I thinktit feels to me if, if i'm hearing you correctly, it's about discernment. It's about undestanding and kind of choosing your battles in a certain regard like honor as your own capacity in this moment. Goodness knows that outside of a what's happening globally, what's happening for people person is really challenging. They're going through a divorce, there's something really challenging happening in their own life,. with their career, or their family or themselves. So recognize the person you're talking to might be doing that. And it's totally unconscious, like they have no idea. I had no idea i was doing it.