How to Travel Leisurely

Don't plan out the entire trip from start to finish because i think the joy of being a traveler is also to do it leisurely and not be like a type A crazy person who demands everything to go their way. Try to visit second cities as opposed to first cities so he says like everybody goes to Paris but what about Leon everyone goes to Dublin  what about Belfast Everyone goes to Edinburgh what about Glasgow and then also to like space out trips, don't do like Greece Italy and France in one trip in 10 days from a logistical standpoint It's very difficult and also very stressful because you're only going to be in a certain place for like x amount of days with so much to do