The Dark Side of Marriage

Julie, I hope two truths feels a bit consoled and maybe received some clarifying thoughts from Julie because she certainly helped me think about this letter in clearer terms. A marriage was not a fraud. What's so maddening is we want it to be one thing or another. And then suddenly we find out it's both things. It's partly a tribute to how deeply your husband loved you, loves you, that he was able to build a beautiful, supportive relationship with you. You could not have known until he let you into that, that there was this darkness within. We'd love to hear from you. Send your letters to us at deer sugar radio at gmail.