Doing the Work of Repentance and Being Entitled to Things That Most People Don't Have

When people are doing the work, we know exactly what to look for. Rabbi joseph blou was complicit in helping a perpetrator go back to work with young adults and kids. Louis ck, on the other hand, issued this apology about how he was listening and learning from the experience of being named as an abuser. He then went straight back into the ego stroking limelight that made it so easy for him to perpetrate harm in the first place. When you do the work, when you mean it, it's pretty clear. And again, the only people who can forgive harmdoers are the people who are harmed by them.