Getting Too Specific in Relationships Is Not Welcome for Me

"When people try to get too specific with me I literally experience that sometimes it's like the very tedious um sense where people are stealing my freedom or like stealing my um yeah so sometimes the specificity is not welcome for me" "You need to be tethered to some of your significant relationships so that you don't dissolve by zooming out so much and then the opposite would be too bound too specific," she says. 'I'm experiencing this whole range and if you try to you know get really specific right now you're not leaving room for the fact that there's this whole range'