What Does It Mean for Her?

"i think often we're caught off guard when suddenly the people in our lives are at a point where they need a lot of caretaking," she says. "Consider what it looks like to take for somebody who is sick, or who is am, who is immobile, or whatever it is." She writes: "It can be really challenging to be in relationship with somebody and then suddenly realize that ... some of these big things that are going to happen are going to deeply impact that relationship"