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12: From Parties to Projective Identification: Why is Group Life so Hard? feat. Christine Smallwood

Ordinary Unhappiness

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The Pairing Assumption

The pairing assumption is that any group of people exist so that people can pair off and mate. Beyond says it doesn't have to be sexual in nature, but that there's a kind of sexual edge to it. And he talks a lot about how the pairing assumption is like underwritten by a kind of messianic hope in the future. The aristocracy example, in some ways almost cuts more viciously on American royal watchers than on British ones.

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