Getting Out of Your Head - I've Never Had an Orgasm

i've never had an orgasm. i feel like i just have this mental blocket, like there's a ton of ghosts, so to speak, in the bedroom,. and i'm too in my head. Leke, git past all like the thoughts and other womenand like, yes, you're putting it in the frame of trying to get out of your head. But i think what you're saying is you're struggling to be open and open hearted and at ease with your spouse.