Getting Married Is Not a Great Way to Leave the Marriage Market

i think it seems plausible to me that there are all sorts of adverse pressures onn clearing the marriage market, t much harder to leave marriage market than it was 20, 30, forty years ago. i walk out of the conversation pretty persuaded that dinning afts are not great and that that making the marget a little less efficient will, on average, result in an greater over all happiness. The best person you get married to is often the person that you end up getting married to,. which dis not, say, yu she ad maye o, somebody that you're miserable with. But that like, infinite choice and variety, trying to optorize for the best is not