I sometimes, it feels like such a commitment. She has to make sure she looks comfortable. I do the same thing if I have a shirt with a stain on it and I put it on, but I like really like the shirt that I just wear it. My partner's beige flag is that he doesn't put his phone on silent mode throughout the night because he's scared. It means his morning alarm won't go off. No matter how many times I tell him or secretly do it and it still goes off,. He just won't risk being consistently woken up all night by all of his neurodic questions.