Grace and Truth and the Holy Spirit

i think that it's important for us to start with an idea that we're saved. Jesus loves me. He created me. I am of infinite value. And from that place, and it is out of e gratitude of what jesus has done for me, now i go and pursue holiness, right? Well, if you are trying to pursue holiness for grace, whichs which i think motivates a lot of the self loathing, or the religious spirit, on the other end of the extreme,. rather than pursuing holiness from grace, we're find ourselves in trouble as it relates to this balance, right?