Parenthood

Parenthood is not the only reason we do things in lifea for fun, or for what i call narrow utilitarianism. Lut children bring meaning. They change how we see ourselves. For some people, parenthood is something to aspire to, and for other people it's not. The experience of a movie with a child in your life was different. I saw the world differently. There are things that make me cry that i would not notice as if i hadn't had a child. And there are that i cry over, my wife crowes over. When our children, ah, see us, they can't understand what's wrong. After your first kid goes to college, you