The husband by far comes off worse but what I think a field does well is makes it clear that part of the reason the husband is coming off worse is because you were getting it from the perspective of the wife. No yeah well you know he does cheat so yeah news yeah don't do it. Yeah we'll do it do it consensually then that that's not cheating though. It sounds like they are characters that are drawn just enough but if you if you wrote more of this book like if she colored in more in between the lines they might start to feel really like tropey or like it's a little trope.