How Do I Know What My Love Language Is?

If i was going to pick a primary out of those five, i'd still say its words, like both and the negative and the positive side. I think that negative words and positive words would still have the biggest impact out of all those five w i mean,. for those that are listening right, they may be thinking, how do i know what my love language is? And a really powerful way, which you can't ha touched upon there just before, is that you can ask yourself three questions. What do i do for others or fail to do that hurts me the most? So think about what hurts you so for you. You said words, when people use it in a negative way