A relationship doesn't have to be 50 50, but when you're making more and more lopsid, end compromising compromises, that's a red flag. We oftentimes use relationships to fix, or almost by pass fixing, problems wth ourself. As long as i can find someone to financially provide for me, i don't have to become independent myself. Can people with different world views last long? A adrianis apples is ask asking a hundred %.