i tolkg: Tradition is something i think modern t very uncomfortable with. Most of the time, in an historic past, you married who your parents told you. You had children because it wasn't even a option. And so we're in this new world as human beings, and dumb the idea of using tradition to solve these problems is very unappealing to most people. But many traditions are there because they have stood the test of time for people who had skin in the game. It's not a bad place to start. Maybe you shouldn't listen to it the way people did for two thousand, three thousand years, but maybe youought at least give it benefit of the doubt