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Savage Lovecast Episode 783

Savage Lovecast

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You Don't Frame It as Revenge

You gave your now husband permission to do something, to mess around with somebody else in a controlled circumstance. He got to do this thing that is regarded by many people as quot wrong. But kind of winked at the bachelor party, fucking around with sex workers,. You didn't get to do a similarly wrong thing. And some part of you, some part of your erotic imagination, i think, has latched on to that and you would like to do something wrong - but with his permission. I would be on guard against framing this as retaliatory. Maybe that's just something small and petty that you keep to yourself. Frame it as desire.

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