"I was bony and young, and i never looked better like yo. I was right in my wheel," he says of his early dating days. "i would tell her what our date was going to be... And it was basically always a horrible date." He has been married to wife venesse for 12 years; they are celebrating their 11th anniversary this week. The pair have written two books together: set pete is the open hearted and mik ymy is the kid from Thanger.